Being married is a gift and not one we should so easily throw away because of a fight. I have learned that I had to grow up and stop running every time I didn’t like what Bill said or did to me. I had to stay! I used to be a great runner, out side, from our vehicle, from restaurants, when ever he made me mad. Now one of our sons does the same thing with his relationships.. Wives, our kid…s are watching us too and learn from what we do.. If we are doing it then it’s ok or the right thing to do in their minds. I have since gone to my son and apologized to him and his dad for my past behavior and shared with him why I was wrong. He is working on not running away when things get tough or he gets mad!
Anyone else dealt with this issue in their marriage? How did you stop it?