Are you an Active Helpmate or            a Source of Frustration?  When your husband asks you to do something, even something as simple as where to park your car when you get home, do you choose to submit to him or do you choose to ignore him because you think you should be able to do what you want to? I was faced with this challenge just the other day. I chose to park where I wanted to. After all, I’m not a child and I don’t need to be told where to park my vehicle.…